A male friend of mine recently asked me if girls like assholes. I was quick to respond that in my opinion we like bad boys not assholes. I constantly hear men complaining that women want assholes, bad boys, nice guys finish last blah blah blah! So I've decided to write about why women tend to lean towards the bad boys, at least from my perspective.
The difference between a bad boy and an asshole is clear. A asshole belittles women, isn't considerate, is rude, immature and selfish. A bad boy is a man who dislikes authority, is protective, maybe a little wild and confident (at times even arrogant).
Men, women want this type of man because they are drawn to men who can take care of them and protect them. We want someone who is interesting and never boring. Sure they may only tell us what we want to hear but that's the beauty of being with this type of man. Men often complain that nice guys finish last and its' true. Women will leave a nice guy if the bad boy is making her feel like a woman. But realistically, most bad boys don't last. They're fun and interesting but they either turn into a nice guy, or get dumped. So be patient guys.
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well my BF is in prison. He was a real bad boy at one time but straightened up his act long before we got together. I'm not normally attracted to bad boys, its usually nerds for me haha. I used to judge people that did date them but being with a prisoner has cured me of all judgement thats for sure.
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy for you Kim! You've always been a good judge of character. I've had my share of bad boys so I absolutely get it. Maybe you've figured it out....get an EX bad boy hahaha. Good luck with your relationship :)
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