Have you ever been cheated on? It’s a very personal question, I know. I also know that if somebody were to ask me I would definitely answer with the truth…HELL YES! Who hasn’t these days right? I mean in my past I have been cheated on by different guys. It always hurt and took a piece of my heart. Now I realize the guys who meant the most to me didn’t hurt me at all.
My first experience with cheating was with my first real boyfriend. We were together for about 1 year when I found out he was cheating on me with his step-sister at the time. Long story short, their parents separated and they got married. In the long run I was super happy for them because at least if he cheated on me, it was with the love of his life. I was pissed when I found out, but it ended up not being that big of a deal in my life.
The worst experience I had was with a different ex-boyfriend. He and I had been dating on and off for years. We were close friends before ever dating so I knew who he was as a person. He cheated on me several times. Of course I never had any proof because we went to different schools so I played the dumb-ass naive girlfriend letting it slide. That is until I finally had proof. I got the other girls phone number from his cell phone and called her. My intention was to scream at her and get some anger off my chest. But as the conversation went on, I found out she had no idea who I was. Mind you, she lived in another state! I explained the situation and we both broke up with him. She and I still keep in contact every so often.
My point is, I’ve been cheated on and cheated on others. It’s not my proudest confession but there it is. I can’t sit here and be a hypocrite talking crap about guys who have hurt me when I know I’ve hurt some in my time. Not the ones I really cared about, but in general I know I wasn’t a saint when I was younger. Overall, I think that it’s more common for men to cheat on women. It’s easier for them and they’re less emotionally involved. Of course that’s just my opinion…
EMM
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